Truth ???

is there really 100% truth in love and relationships.... can a relationship really survive on love and nothing more i really dont think so i think love and relationships are really made up of 50% love and the other percentage made up of little white lies and and hidden secrets things that are best hidden or lied about for the greater good....... I think. Well today i learned something new about my husband i walked in on it actually something hes been hiding now i wonder for how long and is it better that i never knew or should he have just put it out in the open ???????? ugh love is so hard sometimes i feel everything should just ne out in the open instead of hidden or else eventually i might find out some lies about him that i should have learned long ago and feel he is not what i thought he was like opening pandoras box opening up all the evil in someone all the truths he hid with lies......... well whatever it is i dont know that i want to know or continue living the way we do with love and white lies to keep our relationship safe..................... we will never know. and i know that no marriage is perfect but why does it have to be so hard sometimes? Well i guess for now we will have to see where love leads us maybe to bigger better things or perhaps into a black infinite abyss...........................................